Sunday, March 22, 2009

"Women Have a Shelf Life"

It boggles my mind at how many people walk around with a false sense of reality. Unbelieveable...and sad. I had a man yesterday, tell me about how women have a "shelf life" and this was from a man who said he was 49..and had clearly had a facelift and WAY too much botox! Good God! Or how about the woman who entered her info to be part of my database, said her age was 48...then showed up to my recent event....and was not a day under 60! Men in their 50's and 60's think it is reasonable to only want to date women 30 to 40. Well...I'm here to tell you better be RICH. Because there ain't no woman 30 to 40 looking for a man 50 to 60...unless he is going to upgrade her lifestyle, substantially. And women....the only reason most younger guys will date an older woman, is either they think she'll be an easy lay or she'll be their sugar momma. Here's another don't look younger when you get all of that crap done to your face. In fact, it makes you look look like an older person who's trying very hard to look young, except you really just look freakish.Do yourself a favor, keep it happy the way you are and get a grip on reality. What is most important is what is on the inside...and no amount of plastic surgery or lies will help you find love and happiness..if you're not happy with yourself anyway.


Anonymous said...

I agree with you that some women do go overboard with the plastic surgery. But as for a little botox here and there if you keep it real it's a nice little lift kinda like getting a manicure or pedicure.

As for men wanting younger women you are right you better be rich and willing to spend alot of money on that little 22 yr old you just snagged.

Now as for younger men and older women I have to disagree my ex is 15 years younger than me and I was on disability so I was not his sugarmomma. And even though the marriage ended we still talk everyday and if I ever need help with money or bills he is right there for me. And he is not rich just a great person.

Anonymous said...

I loved what you wrote and I get that it's the general concesus but I have to say that at 47 i just dated a 24 year old who actually got me and wanted more! I had to end it because the age difference was ludicrous emotionally. he actually courted me and worked for a living, I never buy a man! I still look thirty and he was thrilled. But no man would end it in a reverse situation. I don't think that men want women with brains, it's all visual in my opinion.

That's why old guys date young women, it's a fertility thing that mirrors back to their egos and need to pro-create studies show. It has nothing to do with "Wow, what a smart woman, a good woman - these are the same jack-asses in court shelling out later......he's running form his own mortality according to Freud and Jung. It's really sad. 80 years old and raising kids who won't know you when they are thirty years old because you'll be dead. It's really selfish.

To the guy who spoke of a "shelf-life" - hilarious. He must be really angry that his twenty year younger men pals are hitting on me now and are far sweeter! And sexier. Money doesn't matter when it comes to chemistry and a good man, like your other reader posted - they are out there, just a far more rare species.

I do appreciate your candor, thanks for your stats on your get-togethers and mixers - interesting stuff!

P.S. I date the homely and sweet ones too and everyone stares at us and he ends up saying "I'm not enough and that drives me bonkers!